Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Garden of Gifts

In case you're interested in the history of the bridal shower via

The Shower started as an alternative to the dowry. In the 1890's, friends and family put small gifts in parasols that were opened over the bride's head. Years ago, as the story goes, there lived a young Dutch girl who loved a young Dutch miller. The miller was so generous to the poor that he could never save a fortune for himself. Because the young man was not rich, the maiden's father disapproved of the match and refused to give her a dowry. But the village folks, and the young people, had desired their marriage. To make up the girl's dowry, each villager brought some treasured possession of his own until a chest had been filled with all household goods that a bride should bring to her new home. With these contributions, they 'showered' the maiden until even her father was won over. From that day to this, it has been the custom for the bride's friends and family to present her with gifts for her new life. Don't despair over a bad turn in the weather. An old Roman proverb states, "Rain falls in the lap of the happy bride."

Interesting stuff!

Now, on to a wonderful bridal shower in a beautiful garden :)

Great friends!
When there is food involved, you better watch out!
watching some entertainment...
See? plate full and a happy girl :)

The outfit

The fun invite!
via Etsy

my boy and I :)
my mama and I :)
David plotting his getaway from all the women!
Hostess with the very mostess! She worked so hard to make everything
beautiful and special.
emotions were flowing that day...

My aunt Gwen made this apron. She has crazy sewing skills!
A cupcake, of course!
My mom had surprised me with
a wedding album she had been making since the beginning! And I just lost composure.
What a road it has been!

Thanks mom!
Are you still here? What a trooper!
Well, thank you to everyone involved. It was truly a beautiful and touching day. It is so important to take a moment and soak in what wonderful moments God has blessed us with. And I am still in awe of the winding path that led to these very precious moments, with the man that God saved just for moi.

~hugs~

17 comments:

  1. Everything is SO cute! I love your outfit, and the invitation is just adorable! So glad you had such a good time! We're all truly blessed!

    ReplyDelete
  2. Aww!!! Looks like you had a blast!!!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE your dress!!!! Wow!!! :)

    ReplyDelete
  3. how wonderful!! :) what an amazing bridal shower... My sister is having one for me next week and i can't wait! I loveeee your dress too! Super cute!!

    ReplyDelete
  4. That invitation is so cute!!! Looks like an amazing time!

    ReplyDelete
  5. Looks like y'all had a great time! I love your dress!

    ReplyDelete
  6. how fun!! what a wondeful momma and family you have :)
    love your dress! you are gorgeous girly!!

    ReplyDelete
  7. What a lovely post!! It was an honor to be there with you...I can't wait till August!! and... on a special note, you have the best Blog friends ever!!! love you!! xoxo

    ReplyDelete
  8. I made the blog!!!! YESSSSSSSS!!!!

    ReplyDelete
  9. Hi! Just found your blog and I love all the pictures! Looks like such a fun shower!! And I love your dress.. congrats on getting married :)

    ReplyDelete
  10. Oh my gosh what a fun and cute shower!! You are stunning and I just love your dress and hair!! Can't WAIT to see pics of your big day!!!

    ReplyDelete
  11. just wanted to let you know that i left an award for you on my blog today:

    http://leighashley.blogspot.com/2010/07/in-ten-years.html

    ReplyDelete
  12. aww that is such a good story, I have never heard that :) And love the pictures!!

    ReplyDelete
  13. This is my first visit to your blog... and I'm hooked. I'm a wedding junkie, but I've never heard that story behind bridal showers!! Love. It.

    Best wishes :)

    ReplyDelete
  14. Ooh you hair is so beautiful! Seems like you had a lot of fun xo

    ReplyDelete
  15. What a beautiful shower, and a beautiful bride to be!!! Enjoy this time, it's sooooo wonderful:-) Yet stressful right? But just focus on what you want and it'll be all good:-)

    ReplyDelete
  16. It looks like it was lovely. Ok, I got a teary eyed when I saw your reaction to the album your mom made for you. Your reaction was priceless and I know mama was happy.

    ReplyDelete

Leave me a note!